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Anonymous said: I've never had anal sex, but it seems like my boyfriend like it, so the point is: how to? Is it messy as I suppose?
There are a lot of really good how-tos out there that are pretty easy to find via google, but the basics are:
- it can be messy but doesn’t have to be. Especially if you’ve gone to the bathroom that day and know there’s nothing waiting to come out, as it were. I’ve done a lot of ass play with my partner and he’s never had anything other than lube come out on the toy. We use a great lube by Wet called Platinum- it’s ridiculously slippery and that’s actually more of a concern for us than anything from his own body because it’s silicon-based and can stain. We usually put down a towel or have them readily available.
- you need to make sure you’re prepared before you do it. You should be exploring yourself with your fingers and/or toys, and getting your partner comfortable with prepping you as well- he can’t just put his dick in and go. This has to be gradual, and you should be doing this prep for a while beforehand- not just immediately before you have anal sex, but weeks before you attempt it.
- you need to relax when he’s entering you. If you’re tense, your sphincter is going to be tense and it’s going to hurt and be no fun at all for you. Basically, he needs to get into your anus- relatively easy- and then into your rectum, which involves passing that sphincter muscle. The first time he does that you need to relax and he needs to go slow and listen to what you’re telling him about how it feels. As long as you’re relaxed, prepared, and into it, and he’s paying attention to how you’re doing, you should be fine!
artemusgorden said: I'd like to know, do you have advice for getting more blowjobs or making them more pleasure able, Or a blowjob simulating masturbation techniuques?
I don’t have advice for getting more past making it clear that you want more, and making sure to make it desirable for your partner. If you tell me “hey I want more blowjobs” but you’re doing things I don’t like (say maybe I didn’t like gagging but you kept thrusting down into my throat) or not cleaning yourself particularly well, I might not be super into your request.
In terms of making them more pleasurable, you know best what you like, but a lot of guys enjoy some stimulation of their taint and/or ass while they’re getting blown. Ball touching can be nice too.
For blowjob simulation in masturbation outside of the toys available for that, I’m really not sure as I don’t have a dick myself! I’d expect that using a lot of lube would help, though, and adding some detail work- I don’t just suck when I give my partner a bj, I do a lot of caressing of sensitive areas like the frenulum, etc. So that could make a difference, perhaps?